Self Test

Pushed or shoved you

Held you to keep you from leaving?

Slapped or bit you?

Kicked or choked you?

Hit or punched you?

Thrown objects at you?

Been jealously angry, assuming you would have sex with others?

Insisted you dress in a more sexual/less sexual way than you wanted?

Criticized you sexually?

Insisted on unwanted or uncomfortable touching?

Withheld sex and/or affection?

Called you sexual names? (e.g. “whore” or “frigid”)

Demanding monogamy from you, while insisting on freedom for self?

Held you to keep you from leaving?

Forced sex with them or others or forced you to watch others?

Forced sex after beating?

Ignored your feelings?

Ridiculed or insulted your most valued beliefs? (i.e. religion, heritage, or class)

Withheld approval, appreciation or affection as punishment?

Continually criticized you, called you names, shouted?

Insulted or drove away your friends or family?

Humiliated you in private or public?